February, the month of love is here and now. Love is in the air.
Are you searching for the love of your life?
Perhaps wondering where the perfect partner for you is to be found.
Maybe even trying to figure out how your current partner morphed out of whom was once your ideal lover, friend and confidante.
Fear not, the answers you seek are here.
How do you magnetise yourself to love so you can attract or re-discover your perfect partner?The answer is as easy as 1, 2, 3 and yet, as hard as you want to make it. If we were you, we would take the road less travelled and choose the easy way.
Our AAA process of Law of Attraction comes into play here.
Ask for what you are wanting. Where this gets hard for some is in the making a decision, so many simply make no decision other than ‘I want to have a partner’ and so you may have a partner but as times goes on you recognise that this is not really the partner that you wish to spend all your time with. It is in the decision making process that so many of you get lost. Make a decision about what you want in your life…what attributes and characteristics you want and what feelings you want to experience and what adventures you want to go on. Get specific, specific, specific
And then let that all go, in other words, don’t become attached to your wants because the Universe has an almighty sense of humour and will more than likely send you something completely surprising and often times so much more than you have asked for. Remember too that when asking for a partner or for anything really, end the asking with ‘this or something better’.
Suggestion: It would behoove you at this point in time to take a look at the list of your ideal partner characteristics and attributes and to bring those things into your own being. In other words, become those things that you are seeking outside of self. You will not be a match for your desires if you are not vibrating at a matching level to that which you desire. It goes without saying, but we are saying it, that you are not expected to take on the physical characteristics of your desired partner if that being is of the opposite sex to you
This part is taken care of for you, there is nothing you can do here as the answering is done by the vibration that you have just sent out to the Universe. Your vibration in the decision of what you want has gone out to find and come together with a matching vibration.
This part is your job. You are required here to go about your life, finding joy, having fun and minding your own vibration in order to be of a vibrational point that matches your desires for you cannot manifest an object of high vibration if you are down there wallowing in something lower…fear, unhappiness, dissatisfaction and ‘yes, buts’.
Suggestion: Do not at this time start looking at the lack of what has not yet manifested and start wondering if your circumstances will ever change. Once you make your firm decision you will be wanting to put your focus only on the end result, put your blinkers on and keep your eyes to the front. It will not serve you to keep turning around and noticing the absence of the perfect partner for in doing so you are effectively delaying their presence in your life. Quite often when we speak with you about this subject we see them in your field so close and in the next breath you talk about ‘yes, but where are they’ and in that moment of not yet having…they move away from your field effectively taking longer to materialise in your physical reality.
If we had to break this message down into a sentence we would say to you ‘go out and practice joy and all you want will be yours in perfect timing’.
Many years ago I came across a quote that has remained a favourite of mine to this day
First I seek joy, and all else follows – Abraham
Download and use the 123 of LOA poster by clicking here to find out where your vibrational frequency is, decide where you want it to be and find out how to move it on up so you are vibrating up and up closer to joy so you can attract more of that into your life.
Happy month of love to you.
Why not start the decision process right now and comment below telling us what it is that you are wanting in your not yet manifest mate or what you might change in the one you have already manifested.